Tic - Toc

It's Friday night and time to relax after a weeks work..right? The BF gets home before I did tonight and has to do all the get home first chores. Sweep kity litter, get mail, medicines kity, feed kity, vacuums way up the stairs to get tracked kity litter, you know, that kind of stuff.

I come in, un-pack lunch, empty dish washer, set brief case down, " I know.. we should try one of those restaurants that we have a gift card for that we got for Christmas"  I said.   No response.  Some time goes by and so I decided to check email and begin to relax...right.

"What are you doing"
"Cleaning house, how else do you think it gets done?"
" I thought that the cleaning fairy did it"
" You could offer to help"
" Why would I want to do that"
" So we do not have to do it all day tomorrow" 
" What?"
" You could vacuum"
"Why would I want to come home from work and vacuum?"

Now I am in the dog house because I do not want to help do chores and made to feel like I never want to help. It's Friday night for fucks sakes. It's like we are never on the same schedule. 20 minutes latter  I decided to go change my cloths as I mutter my way up the stairs, " I guess we will just stay in and have left overs".

"Did you still want to go to dinner" I hear from downs stairs......NO I say to my self.

My schedule,
Come home, relax, eat, drink, fall to sleep.
Tomorrow  I will be up at 7am, at the gym by 8, home by 10, do some chores, shower and be ready to leave the house by 12 to spend the day doing something fun.

His schedule,
Come home,1 1/2 house of chores,eat, get on line, go to bed at 2 am, sleep till 10ish, get on line,shower,  and be ready to leave the house by 1ish.

I don't no how we make it work but it does.  All the chores get done. We both have thing we like to do more then other things. Like I do all the out side stuff and he will do most of the inside stuff. He says that I vacuum better and rather I do it.

Well here to no dinner out and a clean house. I will vacuum when I get home from the gym in the morning.